Tarot and Astrology Life Solutions

I have been missing Dragonfly lately and I wanted to feel his presence again. For those who do not know who Dragonfly is, lets just say he is the Magician in the tarot major arcana.

We are in the year of the Magician ( 2017= 2+0+1+7=10=1+0=1) so we should see his presence everywhere this year. But why am I saying he?

Traditionally the most a woman can aspire to become was the High Priestess - wisdom and secret knowledge. However, Mary K Greer describes the Magician as the card of "me, myself, and I". Moreover, in the Antiquarian Tarot by Maree Bento the Magician is a woman.


So, if the Magician is "me, myself and I",  the Magician can also be a woman and we are in the Year of the Magician, it means: I can be the Magician. When I say this I am referring to all the women who always longed for a Magician in their lives without realizing they can be one themselves.

Why I wanted to be the Magician? The Magician using his/ her mind and skills can achieve anything they want. It is common knowledge the Magician has all the tools on the table: the cup-Water, the wand- Fire, the sword- Air, and the pentacle- Earth , combined with his/ her mind - Spirit. The Magician has the power of all the elements and the knowledge to use them.

For example: The Magician uses:  Water- their feelings/, Air- to create and communicate ideas, Fire- to take action on a new project, Earth- that they put on paper.

The best way to reach out to the Magician is to become the Magician.

Dragonfly- sending you my love and we can meet in dreams and via Magician elements that I can now make use of.

Today I am going to write about how to love correctly (attracting lovers card and rejecting the devil card) in order to avoid attracting negative karma.

There is a difference between love and attachment, and what I did most of my life (with few exceptions) is form attachments with lovers which led to the creation of negative karma for myself.
In tarot terms love will be represented by the lovers card while the attachment by the devil card.

There is a saying: "if you really love someone, let them go"- and this should be the rule on how to perceive love.

All my relationships started the same way with a strong sexual attraction for someone, which I immediately translated into I must be in love. Apparently I was confusing attachment/ sexual attraction with love. However, rushing into a sexual relationship hoping that will turn to love for my partner also only left me hurt and disappointed.
It seems that I always have been attached to appearance. It also said that if you love someone you will give them space to be themselves and do not always try to be with them, which of course I have never done. What I was always forming were claustrophobic attachments.

A huge mistake I used to do in love is I used to project my fantasy onto the person I loved. It was almost impossible to move beyond the illusions I created about that person. This inclination towards idealizing my partner it is also accentuated by my placement of the 7th house of love of partnerships in Pisces, with Neptune as the planet ruler of the house.

Also, another sign that you are forming an attachment vs. love is when you expect someone to love you back. Major mistake because this way you are actually give them power over your own happiness. We should always be solely responsible for our own happiness.
When you love someone the correct way you want them to be happy regardless of them being with you.

Now I love with no attachment and it feels great.


If you are looking for a fun read on the lovers and the devil told through a personal experience you can read The Devil, the Lovers and Me: My life in tarot by Kimberlee Auerbach. here

Hello,

I recently discovered another awesome tarotist Carrie Mallon. She challenges us on her book "Tarot Readers Daily Companion" to use weekends as a time for reflection and ask our selves 3 questions.

Please find below my answers to the questions she asks as examples for reflection time on the weekends:

#1 What in my life feels stagnant right now?

The one thing that feels stagnant in my life right now is:
 1) the inability to forgive and forget others/ to end things when everything is over
 2) the inability to assume my age and
 3) perpetual wish/ long to be 30 years again.
I  also have a tendency to live in the past more than I live in the moment. Moreover, future is like non-existent and therefore do not even think about it often. That does not mean I do not do fun things ever. I do! The other day I had a makeover at the mall :))




#2 How can I bring fresh energy to the situation?

Based on what I read there are ways to improve the situation by:
1) meditating and conversing with my spirit guides... It takes time, and practice and a lot of quiet time to achieve this though.
2) surrounding myself with only positive people that raise my vibration and accept me exactly how I am.
3) taking up painting as a serious hobby.

#3 In what ways I am currently expanding?

I think I am expanding by acknowledging exactly what is not working in my life right now and proactively finding ways to fix those problems. I am expanding my awareness of where I am in my life and where exactly I want to be.


Now I challenge you to be true to yourself and answer the same questions, hopefully inspired by my answers. How do you feel after answering them? Do you feel like you got more in touch with your inner-self?

Hi,

I recently encounter another karmic attraction with someone that was not available, had a girlfriend. It was a very painful experience for me... but this time around I came to recognize and make the difference between a soulmate or twin flame relationship and a karmic relationship. The karmic relationship is mainly a relationship where you think you met the perfect person for yourself despite little compatibility and cannot stop thinking about them, but in fact the relationship is more pain than happy times.

Vix at newagehipster.co has an awesome article about karmic relationships- please read here.

Because of my past experience with karmic attractions I decided it is time to release this karma once and for good by forgiving all those who did me wrong, so they will not keep coming back into my life over and over again.

Here is an affirmation I want to release:

 "I release this karma, I forgive and release all those who have hurt me in all directions of time so that I may move forward no longer held by the karma of my past relationships".

According to Carol Nichols at imaginespirit.com there is a way to work out these karmic relationships, however  "It takes honesty and the willingness on both partners to work on  problems and issues".

You can read the entire article here.

My honest opinion, based on my experience with karmic relationships is to not try to work them out, because it may be a waste of time and energy on something that perhaps is not meant to be.
I encourage you to take up a new activity, like painting or something you are passionate about, including charity and giving to others in order to heal from a karmic relationship/ or just karmic attraction.
Instead, create a clear image of the type of person you want to attract and focus your intent on it.

Love and light,

Ok, lets back up again... this is what I learned from what the books said... unfortunately the reality of what you experience with a karmic relationship/ attraction is completely different. You will feel high and low... and you will feel desperate at times... and it won't be that easy to control your feelings and emotions. That is the reality!! Taking up another interest is a good recommendation, but not a cure. So be prepared to know that it will take some time before you will feel yourself again. Trying to date other people won't help also because your mind is set on that one person and all others will seem like NOT good enough by comparison. Under these conditions I advise you to go out,  but not date anyone yet... have a fling or an affair/ nothing serious.
As much comfort as you might feel when spending time alone, do not isolate yourself because your mind will wonder back in delusions. Now is the time to gather your friends and throw a themed party.. like exchanging books or swapping clothes, or a tarot party...where you exchange readings on each other. However whatever you do stay clear of questions about the partner in question it will bring back those feelings you want to forget about. 

I am sorry if you feel I disconsidered  your feelings... I am here to tell the truth and not what is right to do!! I wish more psychics would take this approach rather than dictate what we should do by the book.

Love and blessings,

Hi everyone,

I am happy to tell you that I am starting a new Tarot Meetup in Bucharest.  It will be fun to interact directly with new tarot enthusiasts and/ or students...

This is a trial meetup, based on how much interest is going to be and how much fun we are going to have at our meeting there will be further meetings or not.

It is the first time I am doing this and it is mostly an action caused by a recent tarot reading I had on myself. Lets hope there will be a celestial touch and everything will go as planned.

Some of things we are going to do on our first meeting:

- round table what attracts you to tarot
- choosing a Significator card that fits your personality and zodiac sign.
- connecting with the cards by looking at the pictures to tell a story
- journaling exercises
- other suggestions welcome

Ok, everyone that wants to join is welcome. Just click the link and add yourself to the group.

Bucharest Tarot Club

love and light

Ok, today I will present you the YES -NO Fortune Telling Oracle Reading.
With this reading you can get a quick response to any YES- NO question you may have. It is an excellent advice reading. I use it all the time and it works every time, if you do it right.

This method of reading cards is by Iris Vorel and was published in an article in the Fate magazine back in 1955. I found about this reading because Mary K Greer is using this method and has updated this reading. She shared it with the online tarot community for the greater good, and I wish to pass it on as well.

How to do it?

#1. write down your yes- no question.
#2 remove the wheel of fortune card from the deck.
#3 shuffle the deck with your question in mind. Fan the cards and draw with your left hand 7 cards.
#4 place the cards on top of the wheel of fortune card.
# 5 re-shuffle the 8 cards so you no longer know where the wheel of fortune card is positioned.
#6 position the cards as per diagram below in the order they already are:



Interpretation:
If the wheel of fortune card falls into the 1 or 5 position, the answer is : YES- favorable response.
If the wheel of fortune card falls into the 2 or 6 position, the answer is : SOON.
If the wheel of fortune is on the bottom left positions 3 or 7 , the answer is : DELAY.
and if the the wheel of fortune is on the bottom right positions 4 or 8, the answer will be NO.

Note: the reversals in this reading bear no meaning, however the general meanings of the cards is important.

Happy readings everyone,
Love and light....