Tarot and Astrology Life Solutions

Today the topic of discussion is difficult love situations.
I recently read an article from Lisa, a tarot reader I happen to like very much. However, yesterday she posted an article that upset me and I need to post back as a response.

Here is a link to her article Why I won't use the Tarot cards to help you cheat.

Ok Lisa, I understand that for an outsider is easy to think of the person who "cheats" as the bad person, with no morals, in a mission to hurt and abuse their husband/ or their wife.

SORRY, I have to strongly disagree with this point of view. I myself have been in this situation once and I can explain a different point of view.

First of all, in my situation I instantly fell in love with someone else (or at least I thought I did) when I was not looking to meet someone else, I was not going out to bars or clubs to find another man, I was not searching for another man fullstop. It just happened!!   Lisa you believe in Past Lives so you can understand Destiny and how sometimes we meet people just because it is meant to happen NOT because we choose to happen! So how can you not understand that people can fall in love by chance and not in purpose?

Moreover, these people in this particular situations torn between a lover and a husband/ wife are in most confusing situations are in most need with a reading. You are not helping them cheat, by giving them a reading, you are helping them sort out their love life.

Also, what most people should know is that people who cheat with a LOVER and NOT multiple partners are not CHEATERS at all. They are people in love with two people at the same time. For me a cheater is just someone who has no feelings for their husband or wife and stays with them for material profit or other reason outside love. Real cheaters are those who cheat with multiple partners and do not love anyone but themselves. I would agree not to give those a reading, because they are people best described in the 7 of swords card of Tarot- and I would call them professional cheaters.

Also, before one can decide to leave your former husband or wife they have to be sure that their new lover is just as they imagined them, their true soulmate. It is no way you can do find out how your new lover or the new person you are very attracted to  truly is unless you spend time to find out more about them. This is not called cheating, is called needing time to reach out a solution, to figure out which direction you need to take. This is a very difficult situation to be in, because as I said like in my situation you can be in love with 2 men at the same time, for different reasons and it takes time to find out what to do. If there would be no feelings involved, yes the person in between two people can be called a cheater, but often that is not the case.

So, my conclusion here is that when cheating is NOT by choice, and it just happen, it is NOT cheating at all!! Cheating is something with intention, it is not out of our control. Love is not something we can control. We cannot love people on demand! We can have sex on demand, but we can never love a person on demand!

That is why I would really offer all my help with tarot readings to anyone that is in a difficult love situation like in between a lover and a husband or a wife, but I would never help cheaters either.

I will soon post under my services a course that will help people with difficult love choices find their way to happiness using the tarot cards.

Until then, if you are in a difficult love situation here are some of the questions you need to ask yourself:

#1. how was the love you felt for your husband/ wife at the beginning?
#2 did it feel the same with the love you feel now for your lover/ new love interest?
#3 love with time fades, so is it possible to feel about the new lover in the future the same as you feel now about your husband/ wife?
#4 is the new lover a past life connection? if so, you should know that some past lovers can come meet us into this life only to hurt and disappoint us again.  Just because you meet with a past life lover it does not mean eternal love and this can come up as a big surprise to many and it is something to think about it before you make a decision.

Usually, only time can decide which one should stay: the lover or the husband/ wife, or none. Yes, none of them can also be the right choice, sometimes. I can help you, and with help of tarot you will understand your choices better and make the correct decision for you without the wait for time.



Thanks for reading.
Blessed be,
HP

The personal experience story:

Some years back I met someone that I recognize as someone I knew from a different life.. I had all the typical symptoms: I felt I knew him all my life, I knew what he was thinking, I felt his presence all around me, he was always in my head.. I knew this was NOT an obsession, because it seemed so out of this world.
If you choose to read 
Past Life Astrology- How Your Former Lives Influence Your Present by Judy Hall  you will find it all explained.

The problem was that this person never recognized me, and that was tragic. I was tormented not understanding why that happened, but I found the answer now. In the same book mentioned above the astrologer explains that if the South Node interaspects you need to learn to let them go. It is a very painful process when the other half does not even recognize you in the present life- she acknowledges and I know this well from my own experience. It seems that a soulmate is not necessarily a one and for all "other half". I wish I knew that before!
  
Important Note!!! 
When I said the person NEVER recognized me I meant as a SOULMATE, as someone from PAST LIFE!! Not that the person has NOT experienced the same UNUSUAL STRONG ATTRACTION!!  We were feeling the same thing but INTERPRETING different!! For me was love with a past life person  for him was like "I want to have sex, and keep it secret". I DON'T want you to think that I was PUSHING LOVE on SOMEONE that was NOT interested in me!! What I failed was to make him UNDERSTAND the right interpretation of what was really going on.  It was very difficult because this person had NO OCCULT KNOWLEDGE of any kind, no SPIRITUAL KNOWLEDGE and was also manipulated against me.

What is encouraging is that Judy Hall explains that we have more than one soulmate.
Honestly, I never met another soulmate yet.

About the karmic past life tarot spread:



More about past life tarot readings you can find in Lisa Frideborg awesome blog post Karmic Grace Past Life Tarot Spread Blog Article Karmic Relationship.

Conclusion:

I encourage you to look into your patterns of behavior when you encounter a new love partner and look for your symptoms before you head out to get help from a regular psychiatrist. You may find out that they are not the most qualified people to offer help. I believe that you should consult a light worker, a past life astrologer, or a tarot healer that can look further into your problem and offer you reasonable explanations for what you are experiencing.