Tarot and Astrology Life Solutions

Hi,

I recently encounter another karmic attraction with someone that was not available, had a girlfriend. It was a very painful experience for me... but this time around I came to recognize and make the difference between a soulmate or twin flame relationship and a karmic relationship. The karmic relationship is mainly a relationship where you think you met the perfect person for yourself despite little compatibility and cannot stop thinking about them, but in fact the relationship is more pain than happy times.

Vix at newagehipster.co has an awesome article about karmic relationships- please read here.

Because of my past experience with karmic attractions I decided it is time to release this karma once and for good by forgiving all those who did me wrong, so they will not keep coming back into my life over and over again.

Here is an affirmation I want to release:

 "I release this karma, I forgive and release all those who have hurt me in all directions of time so that I may move forward no longer held by the karma of my past relationships".

According to Carol Nichols at imaginespirit.com there is a way to work out these karmic relationships, however  "It takes honesty and the willingness on both partners to work on  problems and issues".

You can read the entire article here.

My honest opinion, based on my experience with karmic relationships is to not try to work them out, because it may be a waste of time and energy on something that perhaps is not meant to be.
I encourage you to take up a new activity, like painting or something you are passionate about, including charity and giving to others in order to heal from a karmic relationship/ or just karmic attraction.
Instead, create a clear image of the type of person you want to attract and focus your intent on it.

Love and light,

Ok, lets back up again... this is what I learned from what the books said... unfortunately the reality of what you experience with a karmic relationship/ attraction is completely different. You will feel high and low... and you will feel desperate at times... and it won't be that easy to control your feelings and emotions. That is the reality!! Taking up another interest is a good recommendation, but not a cure. So be prepared to know that it will take some time before you will feel yourself again. Trying to date other people won't help also because your mind is set on that one person and all others will seem like NOT good enough by comparison. Under these conditions I advise you to go out,  but not date anyone yet... have a fling or an affair/ nothing serious.
As much comfort as you might feel when spending time alone, do not isolate yourself because your mind will wonder back in delusions. Now is the time to gather your friends and throw a themed party.. like exchanging books or swapping clothes, or a tarot party...where you exchange readings on each other. However whatever you do stay clear of questions about the partner in question it will bring back those feelings you want to forget about. 

I am sorry if you feel I disconsidered  your feelings... I am here to tell the truth and not what is right to do!! I wish more psychics would take this approach rather than dictate what we should do by the book.

Love and blessings,

I have a  love question I just do not know the answer to. Why we love different men in different ways?

My offline boyfriend is away on a big trip in Europe for about a month. He will be away for the Holidays and that hurts... OUCH!! He is young, and handsome and very hot and I feel I want him day in and day out... like I never get enough of him. No wonder I can stay with him in a bar where everyone smokes and drinks when I don't, till 5 in the morning.
Still compared to the Florida man I have no "deja vue" feeling, no soulmate experience, no love addiction, no wishes to marry him in 4 weeks. With the Florida man I had a constant need to know what he is doing, what he thinks of me, etc. with my new man I do not. It is weird, I love him but I do not feel the need to be with him all the time or to check up on him and see what he does... and it is not because I trust him more! So how can I be in love with someone and react so differently with 2 different men when I am the same person and feel the same thing: love?

Ok.. so I think that other person's behavior makes us act in different ways. So now I am convinced that if the relationship with the Florida man was so bad is mostly because of his behavior towards me.  It is obvious that with a sane man I feel normal and I can enjoy love in a more healthy way.
I did not change, I am the same person, but I feel love differently and that must be only because of the way we react with different people is different.

So it must have been Fate with the Florida man, I am sure. The more I think of it that love was so unnatural..so illogical, especially since I had someone that loved me in my life, at the time. I still cannot understand why it happened... Why I wanted to be with him so much?

Well it does not matter now. I am soo happy again exactly when I thought love at 40 is not possible!! ...and I feel like I am 30 again.. it is almost like God is giving me back the years of grief I lost when I was in my thirties... I did not deserve to be so unhappy at the time when I should have enjoyed my life in full!

Love and light,
HP

I recently ran out on an article in British Edition of Glamour magazine where they talk about "crazy" women in love, they call "crazy bitches". The logical conclusion of therapists is that "crazy" is a used to "shift responsibility".  Therapist Bea Arthur says "women get called crazy for getting upset, when a lot of time he's sending mixed signals or refusing to discuss.." Ok, I agree that was my situation and the conclusion I reached above as well. If women act "crazy" is because of the man's behavior that determines them to act that way. The word "crazy" used against women is "used only to justify bad man's behavior" says the same therapist named above.
So, here this must be the answer to my question, why we feel/ act so different when we feel love with different men.
                                                            

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