Tuesday, December 29, 2015

Best of 2015, Secret Wish List and My 2016 Resolutions

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It is time to present you my list of the top blogs, the top songs and  the top gifts received of 2015. You should consider yourself lucky to learn all at once from the wisdom I acquired/ accumulated in a whole year time. Then, I will tell you my 2016 resolutions mainly for two reasons: one is to set my intentions in writing and the other is to get you inspired for your own list of resolutions. You can add in comments what inspired you most.

Top Blogs/ Sites I discovered and liked in 2015:

#1.www.littleredtarot.com- Beth
with her  awesome webdesign website http://fourelementswebdesign.co.uk/
#2 www.Icanbuildablog.com- Dana
#3 www.daily-tarot-girl.com- Kate
#4 www.tabi.org.uk
#5 www.storybistro.com
#6 www.janeaustensworld.wordpress.com
#7 www.innerwhisperscouk.blogspot.com- Chloe
#8 www.janitesonthejames.blogspot.com
#9 www.carrieparis.com
#10 www.tarotadvisor.com- Gina
#11 www.angelorum.com- Lisa
#12 http://www.divinemuses.net/divinemusings - the most amazing tarot deck: Antiquarian tarot...
Wow I have to get this deck.. is the best deck ever!!
#13 www.thetarotparlor.com- Cameron

Top Songs of 2015 in my list are:
(you can find them all in Utube)

#1 Kygo- Firestone ft. Conrad Sewell
#2 Galantis- Runaway (U and I)
#3 Ellie Goulding- Love me like you do
#4 Charlie Puth- Marvin Gaye ft. Meghan Trainor
#5 Little Mix- Black Magic
#6 Ellie Goulding- On my mind

Top Gifts of 2015

#1 trip to Sinaia Resort/ Peles Castle (with my son) in June


#2 nicest Lingerie: lace, satin and spandex knickers from Accessories store
#3 new 500GB hard drive and operating system for my Sony Vaio laptop.
#4 best hand made, luxurious fondante candy by "Happy Aunts from Maliuc"
#5 most beautiful Lenormand Oracle Deck: "Pagan Lenormand" by Gina M Pace.


Most important Piece of Wisdom I learned during the year of 2015:

#1. can't solve personal problems online and can't find solutions to financial problems through crowd funding!
 
#2 sex sells anything...


My New Year Resolutions for 2016 are:



#1 get more "social" online; develop Pinterest, Twitter, Instagram accounts;
#2 prepare and present a "Tarot Online Course" and a "Lenormand Cards  Online Course" using Anthony Louis, Mary K Greer, Rachel Pollack, Diane Wilkes and Ricklef as a guidance.
#3 study more languages: French and Greek. Write some posts in French, actually...
#4 attend a Graphic Design School/ get a Web Design degree...
#5 start a monthly newsletter for this blog.
#6 Get crafty: learn better knitting..
#7 Move house...
#8 stay in a long term relationship 
#9 turn this blog into a book... I think there are some great ideas in here that need to be developed


Last, not least here is my "Secret" Wish List:

#1 antiquarian tarot deck - I have to have this..  divinemuses.net/tarot
#2 a creative writing course for my new book
#3 the book "Tarot and the Chakras" by Miriam Jacobs
#4 Magpie Oracle Tarot by Carrie Paris http://carrieparis.com/shop/magpie-oracle/
#5 the tarot of sexual magic deck published by Lo Scarabeo
#6 Dane Darcy's Mermaid Tarot http://www.daily-tarot-girl.com/2015/05/19/top-ten-tarot-decks/
#7 Leonie Dawson's Life and Biz Workbook, "2016 Shining Year in Life" workbook https://shiningacademy.com/2016-workbooks/
#8 a NEW mattress
#9 http://shop.ohmibod.com/Boutique-ohMiBod/Lovelife/Lovelife-Share- Oh Mi Bod couples vibrator...together with a boyfriend that wants to call me his girlfriend not just wants to have sex with me, LOL
#10 The Magic & Manifestation Affirmation Oracle deck - found in Ethony's story: http://ethony.com/magic-and-manifestation-affirmation-cards/


Today, 1st of January 2016 some incredible thing happened: the "dragonfly" showed up in the New Year Concert in Vienna in a  musical piece "die Libelle" by Joseph Strauss. Moreover, the camera picked on all sorts of jewelry and crafted dragonflies... to highlight just that, the "dragonfly". Wow, it is like the Universe telling me that my dragonfly is watching over me this year.
Excellent start for the New Year!!




Wednesday, December 23, 2015

Christmas free readings

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Ok.. Ho, Ho, Ho.. Christmas Eve is almost upon us, tomorrow... and  it seems everyone around is gifting things... My gift for you this year is un updated blog and Free Readings. As you can notice I purchased a new design for my blog.. Out with the old, outdated blog, and in with the new blog!
I hope you all like it as much I do. Please let me know in comments what would you like to see in my blog, other then personal stories and tarot stuff.

I included a facebook link to my personal facebook page: Biancat Tarot.
There I will conduct free, live readings (via instant messaging)  today and tomorrow, if you decide to join my blog.

Happy Holidays everyone,
hope to meet some of you soon,

HP

PS1- I will add Pinterest and Twitter buttons soon!
These are in my New Year resolutions list of short term goals that I plan to complete in the first month of 2016. :)
PS2- There will be Lenormand Card posts coming up soon.. see image below..
                  
 

                                    these are some of the gifts I got myself for Christmas this year
 



                                            Lenormand Cards and Nicoletta Ceccoli Tarot
                                             there are going to be future posts on those

          




Monday, December 21, 2015

Tarot Kings and Sex...

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Hi everyone,

I am delighted to present you a new blogger I love the Tarot Girl... She is smart and sassy, and fun.

Here is a link to one of her articles I found very funny tarot kings in bed.

So I am glad I am not the only one combining tarot and love/ sex stories. I must agree with most of her king's interpretations..

Here is what I think of these kings:

King of Cups- he is not that needy as Tarot Girl thinks, come-on he is just emotional! I know emotional is not the best trait in a man, otherwise he will be too much like me.. and I mean by that like a woman. Ok, so I think of this guy as my twin.. Would I want to date someone like this? I do not know... but overall is a good guy, the type every woman wants to be friends with anyway.

Kind of Wands- this king is sexy, and fast, but I do not see him such a porn star... he resembles my ex husband so I am fond of him. Loved sex? oh, Yes. Good in bed? not as much as he thought so.
And you know what? I love watching Witches of East End, even re-runs and if he cannot put up with this tough luck!

King of Coins- the rich man I never dated!! I do not know what to say about this guy.. not my type for sure! Money is not enough for me to date a man, and that is why I probably stay poor forever, but that does not really bother me too much. I would rather be with a poor guy that makes me hot than with a rich guy that makes me feel nothing.

King of Swords- I had enough of this king! I agree with most of what Tarot Girl says about this guy, except that I do not think he likes to be abused.. I think he is the abuser.. and likes to torment innocent women who happen to fall in love with him. He is totally into books, especially into books his mom told him to read, even though he may be 40 or 50. LOL

Ok guys, this is my view of the kings.. I hope you will enjoy reading the article Tarot Kings ... in bed as much as I did..

Love and light,
HP

Friday, December 18, 2015

Why we feel so different when we love different men?

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I have a  love question I just do not know the answer to. Why we love different men in different ways?

My offline boyfriend is away on a big trip in Europe for about a month. He will be away for the Holidays and that hurts... OUCH!! He is young, and handsome and very hot and I feel I want him day in and day out... like I never get enough of him. No wonder I can stay with him in a bar where everyone smokes and drinks when I don't, till 5 in the morning.
Still compared to the Florida man I have no "deja vue" feeling, no soulmate experience, no love addiction, no wishes to marry him in 4 weeks. With the Florida man I had a constant need to know what he is doing, what he thinks of me, etc. with my new man I do not. It is weird, I love him but I do not feel the need to be with him all the time or to check up on him and see what he does... and it is not because I trust him more! So how can I be in love with someone and react so differently with 2 different men when I am the same person and feel the same thing: love?

Ok.. so I think that other person's behavior makes us act in different ways. So now I am convinced that if the relationship with the Florida man was so bad is mostly because of his behavior towards me.  It is obvious that with a sane man I feel normal and I can enjoy love in a more healthy way.
I did not change, I am the same person, but I feel love differently and that must be only because of the way we react with different people is different.

So it must have been Fate with the Florida man, I am sure. The more I think of it that love was so unnatural..so illogical, especially since I had someone that loved me in my life, at the time. I still cannot understand why it happened... Why I wanted to be with him so much?

Well it does not matter now. I am soo happy again exactly when I thought love at 40 is not possible!! ...and I feel like I am 30 again.. it is almost like God is giving me back the years of grief I lost when I was in my thirties... I did not deserve to be so unhappy at the time when I should have enjoyed my life in full!

Love and light,
HP

I recently ran out on an article in British Edition of Glamour magazine where they talk about "crazy" women in love, they call "crazy bitches". The logical conclusion of therapists is that "crazy" is a used to "shift responsibility".  Therapist Bea Arthur says "women get called crazy for getting upset, when a lot of time he's sending mixed signals or refusing to discuss.." Ok, I agree that was my situation and the conclusion I reached above as well. If women act "crazy" is because of the man's behavior that determines them to act that way. The word "crazy" used against women is "used only to justify bad man's behavior" says the same therapist named above.
So, here this must be the answer to my question, why we feel/ act so different when we feel love with different men.
                                                            

                                                                     PS- my new profile picture :)