Tarot and Astrology Life Solutions

It is time to present you my list of the top blogs, the top songs and  the top gifts received of 2015. You should consider yourself lucky to learn all at once from the wisdom I acquired/ accumulated in a whole year time. Then, I will tell you my 2016 resolutions mainly for two reasons: one is to set my intentions in writing and the other is to get you inspired for your own list of resolutions. You can add in comments what inspired you most.

Top Blogs/ Sites I discovered and liked in 2015:

#1.www.littleredtarot.com- Beth
with her  awesome webdesign website http://fourelementswebdesign.co.uk/
#2 www.Icanbuildablog.com- Dana
#3 www.daily-tarot-girl.com- Kate
#4 www.tabi.org.uk
#5 www.storybistro.com
#6 www.janeaustensworld.wordpress.com
#7 www.innerwhisperscouk.blogspot.com- Chloe
#8 www.janitesonthejames.blogspot.com
#9 www.carrieparis.com
#10 www.tarotadvisor.com- Gina
#11 www.angelorum.com- Lisa
#12 http://www.divinemuses.net/divinemusings - the most amazing tarot deck: Antiquarian tarot...
Wow I have to get this deck.. is the best deck ever!!
#13 www.thetarotparlor.com- Cameron

Top Songs of 2015 in my list are:
(you can find them all in Utube)

#1 Kygo- Firestone ft. Conrad Sewell
#2 Galantis- Runaway (U and I)
#3 Ellie Goulding- Love me like you do
#4 Charlie Puth- Marvin Gaye ft. Meghan Trainor
#5 Little Mix- Black Magic
#6 Ellie Goulding- On my mind

Top Gifts of 2015

#1 trip to Sinaia Resort/ Peles Castle (with my son) in June


#2 nicest Lingerie: lace, satin and spandex knickers from Accessories store
#3 new 500GB hard drive and operating system for my Sony Vaio laptop.
#4 best hand made, luxurious fondante candy by "Happy Aunts from Maliuc"
#5 most beautiful Lenormand Oracle Deck: "Pagan Lenormand" by Gina M Pace.


Most important Piece of Wisdom I learned during the year of 2015:






#1 get more "social" online; develop Pinterest, Twitter, Instagram accounts;
#2 prepare and present a "Tarot Online Course" and a "Lenormand Cards  Online Course" using Anthony Louis, Mary K Greer, Rachel Pollack, Diane Wilkes and Ricklef as a guidance.
#3 study more languages: French and Greek. Write some posts in French, actually...
#4 attend a Graphic Design School/ get a Web Design degree...
#5 start a monthly newsletter for this blog.
#6 Get crafty: learn better knitting..
#7 Move house...
#8 stay in a long term relationship 
#9 turn this blog into a book... I think there are some great ideas in here that need to be developed


Last, not least here is my "Secret" Wish List:

#1 antiquarian tarot deck - I have to have this..  divinemuses.net/tarot
#2 a creative writing course for my new book
#3 the book "Tarot and the Chakras" by Miriam Jacobs
#4 Magpie Oracle Tarot by Carrie Paris http://carrieparis.com/shop/magpie-oracle/
#5 the tarot of sexual magic deck published by Lo Scarabeo
#6 Dane Darcy's Mermaid Tarot http://www.daily-tarot-girl.com/2015/05/19/top-ten-tarot-decks/
#7 Leonie Dawson's Life and Biz Workbook, "2016 Shining Year in Life" workbook https://shiningacademy.com/2016-workbooks/
#8 a NEW mattress
#9 http://shop.ohmibod.com/Boutique-ohMiBod/Lovelife/Lovelife-Share- Oh Mi Bod couples vibrator...together with a boyfriend that wants to call me his girlfriend not just wants to have sex with me, LOL
#10 The Magic & Manifestation Affirmation Oracle deck - found in Ethony's story: http://ethony.com/magic-and-manifestation-affirmation-cards/


Today, 1st of January 2016 some incredible thing happened: the "dragonfly" showed up in the New Year Concert in Vienna in a  musical piece "die Libelle" by Joseph Strauss. Moreover, the camera picked on all sorts of jewelry and crafted dragonflies... to highlight just that, the "dragonfly". Wow, it is like the Universe telling me that my dragonfly is watching over me this year.
Excellent start for the New Year!!

Ok.. Ho, Ho, Ho.. Christmas Eve is almost upon us, tomorrow... and  it seems everyone around is gifting things... My gift for you this year is un updated blog and Free Readings. As you can notice I purchased a new design for my blog.. Out with the old, outdated blog, and in with the new blog!
I hope you all like it as much I do. Please let me know in comments what would you like to see in my blog, other then personal stories and tarot stuff.

I included a facebook link to my personal facebook page: Biancat Tarot.
There I will conduct free, live readings (via instant messaging)  today and tomorrow, if you decide to join my blog.

Happy Holidays everyone,
hope to meet some of you soon,

HP

PS1- I will add Pinterest and Twitter buttons soon!
These are in my New Year resolutions list of short term goals that I plan to complete in the first month of 2016. :)
PS2- There will be Lenormand Card posts coming up soon.. see image below..
                  

                                    these are some of the gifts I got myself for Christmas this year
 



                                            Lenormand Cards and Nicoletta Ceccoli Tarot
                                             there are going to be future posts on those

          

Hi everyone,

I am delighted to present you a new blogger I love the Tarot Girl... She is smart and sassy, and fun.

Here is a link to one of her articles I found very funny tarot kings in bed.

So I am glad I am not the only one combining tarot and love/ sex stories. I must agree with most of her king's interpretations..

Here is what I think of these kings:

King of Cups- he is not that needy as Tarot Girl thinks, come-on he is just emotional! I know emotional is not the best trait in a man, otherwise he will be too much like me.. and I mean by that like a woman. Ok, so I think of this guy as my twin.. Would I want to date someone like this? I do not know... but overall is a good guy, the type every woman wants to be friends with anyway.

Kind of Wands- this king is sexy, and fast, but I do not see him such a porn star... he resembles my ex husband so I am fond of him. Loved sex? oh, Yes. Good in bed? not as much as he thought so.
And you know what? I love watching Witches of East End, even re-runs and if he cannot put up with this tough luck!

King of Coins- the rich man I never dated!! I do not know what to say about this guy.. not my type for sure! Money is not enough for me to date a man, and that is why I probably stay poor forever, but that does not really bother me too much. I would rather be with a poor guy that makes me hot than with a rich guy that makes me feel nothing.

King of Swords- I had enough of this king! I agree with most of what Tarot Girl says about this guy, except that I do not think he likes to be abused.. I think he is the abuser.. and likes to torment innocent women who happen to fall in love with him. He is totally into books, especially into books his mom told him to read, even though he may be 40 or 50. LOL

Ok guys, this is my view of the kings.. I hope you will enjoy reading the article Tarot Kings ... in bed as much as I did..

Love and light,
HP

I have a  love question I just do not know the answer to. Why we love different men in different ways?

My offline boyfriend is away on a big trip in Europe for about a month. He will be away for the Holidays and that hurts... OUCH!! He is young, and handsome and very hot and I feel I want him day in and day out... like I never get enough of him. No wonder I can stay with him in a bar where everyone smokes and drinks when I don't, till 5 in the morning.
Still compared to the Florida man I have no "deja vue" feeling, no soulmate experience, no love addiction, no wishes to marry him in 4 weeks. With the Florida man I had a constant need to know what he is doing, what he thinks of me, etc. with my new man I do not. It is weird, I love him but I do not feel the need to be with him all the time or to check up on him and see what he does... and it is not because I trust him more! So how can I be in love with someone and react so differently with 2 different men when I am the same person and feel the same thing: love?

Ok.. so I think that other person's behavior makes us act in different ways. So now I am convinced that if the relationship with the Florida man was so bad is mostly because of his behavior towards me.  It is obvious that with a sane man I feel normal and I can enjoy love in a more healthy way.
I did not change, I am the same person, but I feel love differently and that must be only because of the way we react with different people is different.

So it must have been Fate with the Florida man, I am sure. The more I think of it that love was so unnatural..so illogical, especially since I had someone that loved me in my life, at the time. I still cannot understand why it happened... Why I wanted to be with him so much?

Well it does not matter now. I am soo happy again exactly when I thought love at 40 is not possible!! ...and I feel like I am 30 again.. it is almost like God is giving me back the years of grief I lost when I was in my thirties... I did not deserve to be so unhappy at the time when I should have enjoyed my life in full!

Love and light,
HP

I recently ran out on an article in British Edition of Glamour magazine where they talk about "crazy" women in love, they call "crazy bitches". The logical conclusion of therapists is that "crazy" is a used to "shift responsibility".  Therapist Bea Arthur says "women get called crazy for getting upset, when a lot of time he's sending mixed signals or refusing to discuss.." Ok, I agree that was my situation and the conclusion I reached above as well. If women act "crazy" is because of the man's behavior that determines them to act that way. The word "crazy" used against women is "used only to justify bad man's behavior" says the same therapist named above.
So, here this must be the answer to my question, why we feel/ act so different when we feel love with different men.
                                                            

                                                                     PS- my new profile picture :)

Now for the people who are invited to my blog, please read this if you are searching for a psychic.

I have a vast experience with psychics from all over the US but also UK, and choosing the right psychic it is very hard to do. In this industry there are a lot of crooks, and unlike the investments advisory that is regulated by the Government, if you loose your money here none will get it back for you. The temptation to pray on people in crisis/ distress it is very high, because they are very easy targets and an easy way to make a quick buck.
However, there are also real psychics that can make accurate predictions. Finding them it is pretty hard.

Here are some psychics to avoid-

-psychics on phone lines (unless you actually met them before)
- psychics you know nothing about;
- pyschics that interfere with the reading and give their own personal advice instead of reading the cards as they are;
- psychics that want to convince you have a problem, so they can offer to fix it against extra cost.
- expensive psychics!! these are the hit- and -run psychics!! they hope to score big once, and they do not care if you ever return!
 ( it is easy to think that if they cost a fortune, they will give you their best advice- I paid once 100$ for a 5-10 minutes reading which was totally bullshit);
- psychics that are in the business just for the money;
few month ago I met online a psychic from London, and he had his own business. He wrote me that he owns his own tarot website and that he is doing readings at a Starbucks. Wow, I got so excited, I thought I finally met my twin and I wanted to more about him. Soon enough I found out that he had a newly born child and he was not married to the mother of the child. That sounded very irresponsible to name the least. Then he said that he was doing "love" readings for a bunch  of women seeking advice. The way he used the word "love" was like it was such a ridiculous thing. That topped it- so a guy who thought "love" was something to be sarcastic about was making a living as a love psychic!! We were supposed to have a date which I never attended, I just let him waiting there.. with no excuse. He texted I never answered..
SO you must watch out for this type of psychics who are in the profession just to make a buck.

Now how do you get to the good psychics?

- well, learning something about the cards yourself will help you figure out the right psychics from the weeds;
- doing the cards yourself to get a better picture of your general situation
- looking for psychics who you had time to observe online, on social media before.. You know they are passionate about what they do, because you see them doing it everyday..
Attention! there are psychics, like the Psychic Lady or Sacha Fenton  and even Doreen Virtue that even though they have an established presence as psychics they have no prediction abilities. Yes, they can talk to you about the cards all day long, but they cannot actually connect with the cards.. they have no psychic abilities or calling. Doreen Virtue in particular is a wise psychiatrist, who has a nice presence, and always a good word of advice, but NO psychic abilities. That is why you are always going to see her partner with other spiritual people, to cover what she knows she lacks.
Some of the psychics I like, and follow on social media are Ethony (Australian but lives in Canada), Katie Golbie (UK), Lisa Eddy (from Sweden, but lives in UK), Paul Francis (Irish but living in UK), Chloe McCracken, and Kelly-Ann Maddox (the 4 Queens)
To this list I would like to add the name of an amazing young wiccan/ celtic girl from Salem, Massachusetts. I do not believe she is online, but you can find her in Salem/ the witches town.
Finding her was not easy. I previously made many trips to the famous witch town of Salem, but I found in there mostly theatrical people, dressed up the part for the experience, but not real psychics. I am sure a lot of them thought they were, but to me they were just more weirdos, trying to look different than others than into the real psychic experience. One day though, I was passing a magical shop when one very strange looking guy, (and strange not because they way he was dressed or had anything special done to his hair) stopped me on the street and invited me into his store. I was a bit scared by his looks, and the way he was speaking, using old English I think, but so curios about it at the same time. I decided to enter the shop, and my ... it was just amazing... that shop was the most complete metaphysical shop I have ever seen... he had everything. I purchased so many things from there, including spell books, candles, incents, potions..when I was about to leave the store I saw an advert about readings, so I asked about it. In turn he asked me what kind of reading I seek, and I answered a love reading. I was terrified he will tell me that he will be the one conducting the reading, and I had no intention to confess to such a strange looking man, but he instead called for his daughter. She was a young girl, maybe 20 years old or less, just as strange looking as her father. To be more exact, both them looked a bit demonic. As soon as she arrived, she told me to follow her to a dark room, and I was thinking for a way out of the situation, I wanted to run out of the store, but I did not want to let them know how scared I was. Still, there was something friendly about her, so I decided to follow her. It was mostly my curiosity that had me stay. I knew she was a magical creature, not sure if completely human or not, but that was what attracted me to her. Oh my, her reading was the best reading I EVER had,  lasted for about an hour and only cost 20$. I was so amazed with her reading, She combined astrology chart readings, with ephymerides and tarot cards. When I asked her about the Florida man and my husband, she told me none of them were any good for me. Even though she knew nothing of my Florida story, as soon as she checked him out, she frowned and looked terrified.. she did not want to say as much as she saw in the reading, that was clear, and I understood that so we moved away from the subject. She told me that there is yet another man to come, that will fit my personality better, but she told me was not going to be anytime soon. She predicted me going back to Europe and to Greece at a time when I never even thought of going there.
I came back to her every time I was in town.
Magical creature, I miss you so much, and I wish to find you again!
- So the general rule is you have to go through a lot of bad psychics before you find one that you can actually connect with!!
- or you can  read free advice online from articles like mine, where other people have tried first and you can now just collect the result on their experience.


Spells

Ok, the general rule says that just because you can do them, it does not mean you should!

Spells are not a game.. !!! It is not something to do for fun!!
There are always more implications than you can think of when you do a spell, and things may backfire at you!! Things can get out of your control very easily!! What is worse, is that most spells are irreversible!!
Spells should be done only by PROFESSIONALS.. so seek help if you want to cast one!!
If you still want to cast a spell on your own, start with something small!! Something that if it turns out badly, it won't be such a disaster!!
NEVER do any person specific spells!! I heard that if you do, some very bad things can happen to you too! A lot of psychics won't even consider discussing a person specific love spell because that will mean maybe doing something against that person's free will. However, there are psychics that will offer to perform such spells!! As tempting as may sound, I advice against such spells because:-
1. you may not a  string puppet to love you, you may want a person to love you for you!
2. you may not want that person indefinitely.
3. it is not the right thing to do.

If you want love, or marriage just do a general LOVE/ MARRIAGE spell- and the right person or persons will come along. I know I used one, in combination with feng shui-ing my apartment and I received not one but two marriage proposals, at around the same time, shortly after I casted the spell.
Also a fellow psychic friend tired of "swimming shark infested waters"- as she used to call online dating where a lot of married men approached her, I am sure casted a love/ marriage spell and she is married now after just a few months.

Money/ Wealth / Health Spells I have never tried... but I am sure that the same general rules apply.

Clarification:

Wow, Wow.. again CLARIFICATION I never casted a love spell to get multiple boyfriends... I never said that!! That is such a crazy thing to say!
Ok I removed the previous comments because I do not want to ruin this blog.
What I said  is that  I did a love spell once, and I got multiple SUITORS!!!
In fact I have never done a love spell in more than 20 years!!  I honestly find that practice... not the right way for me.
I NEVER had done a love spell on anyone I liked/ wanted and I do not encourage anyone to do it, as tempting as  it may be .. I just do not think it will lead to the forever love you seek with that person..
I bought a love potion- love attraction, but that was more because I liked the smell very much, like perfume, not to attract multiple partners!
Aleister Crowlely... and all the magical books I have not been purchased with any love intentions in mind. I did the occult trail in London (yes there is one), few years ago and it was a magnificent experience, but Love was not in my mind when I did it, nor when I made any of  my purchases.

Apparently my love life has become this international cheap  Jewish Hollywood production, where I had a major crush on someone and I used magic to enchant them ("my crush").
Sorry to disappoint, that never happened. No major crush on anyone!!
In fact he was not even my type and I told him that- he can confirm. So major crush with someone I am not even naturally attracted to? He asked me what is my type I told him "dark men". He entered panic.. "black?" he asked- I said not exactly, but yeah some black men are very attractive to me. From there on, he started asking me, black like this guy, black like that guy? It was just crazy to see him so insecure! So here you go, my attraction to this guy was totally unnatural!
Do you really think that I would go crazy on a man just because I find him attractive? Do you have any idea how many men I found attractive in Florida?
Your theory it is just so ridiculous!! Yes, there was sexual attraction but it was a LOT more than that!

Now I know it was just meeting someone from my past life, an old lover I recognized right away. - and having a hard time adjusting to the situation, trying to figure out the meaning of his appearance/ discovery.
This is not an idea in my head!!! I know how it feels in a normal relationship, and I know what I felt with this guy was not the usual feeling. It is was supernatural.. it was a feeling, not a thought!! Hello.??I had no idea what it was... at the time, that is why I went into Research!
 I know there are people out there that can understand exactly what I am talking about, obviously those that try to educate me, cannot!

There is no other logical explanation to what I felt. In fact if you want to watch Witches of East End you will see that a similar thing happens to Freya. She is ready to get married to a man she thinks she loves (all good) and then boom she meets this other guy (his brother Killian) and she feels this weird inexplicable attraction! She also wants to know why, she finally finds out they were lovers many past lives before.. and also that they actually every lifetime  they do not get to be together for different reasons out of their control.

No rituals, spells or enchantments were used on this guy EVER. This man was already attracted to me, so why do I need to enchant him?
At that time in Florida I did not even know who Aleister Crowley or Buckland were, so could I read them to enchant anyone? As I said numerous times before I only went to psychics to figure out the big mystery. I was more consumed with the search and the inquiry as well as making efforts to communicate with him the occult part of the encounter than with anything else. For some reason I was convinced that if he would listen to me, he will understand. But I was very wrong about that, because I now know that NONE can actually reason with this guy.

Blessed be

PS- Dragonfly, I am sorry that you are unhappy with my wealth, but with men like you there will be no Cinderella Stories. I, myself, if fortune is all you have, I shall not be interested in you.
One more revelation, I was under the impression that I was alone by choice.

Blessings everyone,

There is a new tarot project going waiting to be financed on kickstarter.com Tarot Fundamentals.

Ok, the project is managed by some tarotists I don't particularly feel they have what it takes to produce a series of tarot books. For one, take Sasha Graham, she is a self- called "tarot diva"- I bought her first book and proved to be such a disappointment! She also has a problem with image- if you look at the pictures on her book, and her blog have nothing to do with how she looks in reality. This woman cannot even accept how she really looks; she has an idyllic image of herself. How is she going to write a book on tarot when she cannot even accept herself?

The other 2 famous writers involved in this project are Marcus Katz and Tali Goodwin-  two of the most boring people ever!

Overall I think this project is a great idea, but in the end the books will be just as good as the people who wrote them. Tarot is not a novel! It does not need to be told by "writers", to be explained it in a story form. Tarot needs to be told by professional psychics, clairvoyants, mediums, magicians that can relate to the occult part of the matter. I honestly think that if this project would be managed and written by Michelle Knight, Carrie Paris, Mary K Greer, Rachel Pollack, Paul Hughes- Barlow, Anthony Louis would be a great success!!
So my advice is not to put any money into this mambo-jumbo project, because in the end you will only finance a story-telling of tarot and tarot history and this is beyond the true purpose of tarot.

Now talking about your tarot business I found some great tarot resources on the internet that I want to share with you.

First of all, if you are looking (like I am, but don't have yet the funds for it) for a great web designer for your tarot blog please meet Beth Maiden of Little Red Tarot! She has some samples of her work in her site, which I found awesome ! She also unlike other web designer actually understands Tarot!

For a direct link to her blog and to get some advice on design of your tarot blog just click Design Tips for your Blog.

And now going even further if you are looking for ways to grow your tarot practice a great first stop is the blog Grow Your Tarot Business.

Last but not least you should get a copy of the life and biz workbook/ organizer of lovely Leonie Dawson. She is a lovely very creative Australian lady and you can link with her right at Create Your Shining Year. Don't postpone and plan your year with one these wonderful planners in paper or tablet format.
I would really love to get one of the paper organizers myself, so it is still on my wish list for now.

These are my news and resources for now and check back for Valentine's day when I will be talking about every Witch's dream is a magician!

Blessed- be!
Namaste

Ok, today I decided to do a reading using the Daily Guidance From Your Angels Oracle cards by Doreen Virtue.
Just recently I had been writing about my personal experience regarding a past life relationship karma. I am the type of person that I want to understand all the "Why" in my past meaningful relationships.
However the angels had a very different and meaningful message for me as  shown in the card above: "LET YOUR PAST GO".
The card message reads: 

The burden of caring your past around has made you very weary. Dear one, it is time to set this burden down. Keep only the lessons and the love, and leave everything else behind. You don't want it or need it, and it's now gone.

I want to thank the angels for getting me back on track and focused on the NOW and the future rather than the past. I cannot change the past, I do not need the past and it is now all gone anyway.

The personal experience story:

Some years back I met someone that I recognize as someone I knew from a different life.. I had all the typical symptoms: I felt I knew him all my life, I knew what he was thinking, I felt his presence all around me, he was always in my head.. I knew this was NOT an obsession, because it seemed so out of this world.
If you choose to read 
Past Life Astrology- How Your Former Lives Influence Your Present by Judy Hall  you will find it all explained.

The problem was that this person never recognized me, and that was tragic. I was tormented not understanding why that happened, but I found the answer now. In the same book mentioned above the astrologer explains that if the South Node interaspects you need to learn to let them go. It is a very painful process when the other half does not even recognize you in the present life- she acknowledges and I know this well from my own experience. It seems that a soulmate is not necessarily a one and for all "other half". I wish I knew that before!
  
Important Note!!! 
When I said the person NEVER recognized me I meant as a SOULMATE, as someone from PAST LIFE!! Not that the person has NOT experienced the same UNUSUAL STRONG ATTRACTION!!  We were feeling the same thing but INTERPRETING different!! For me was love with a past life person  for him was like "I want to have sex, and keep it secret". I DON'T want you to think that I was PUSHING LOVE on SOMEONE that was NOT interested in me!! What I failed was to make him UNDERSTAND the right interpretation of what was really going on.  It was very difficult because this person had NO OCCULT KNOWLEDGE of any kind, no SPIRITUAL KNOWLEDGE and was also manipulated against me.

What is encouraging is that Judy Hall explains that we have more than one soulmate.
Honestly, I never met another soulmate yet.

About the karmic past life tarot spread:



More about past life tarot readings you can find in Lisa Frideborg awesome blog post Karmic Grace Past Life Tarot Spread Blog Article Karmic Relationship.

Conclusion:

I encourage you to look into your patterns of behavior when you encounter a new love partner and look for your symptoms before you head out to get help from a regular psychiatrist. You may find out that they are not the most qualified people to offer help. I believe that you should consult a light worker, a past life astrologer, or a tarot healer that can look further into your problem and offer you reasonable explanations for what you are experiencing.