Tarot and Astrology Life Solutions

Hi everyone, 

today I want to share some dating advice for the younger women. This is an analysis drawn from my own life experience of almost half a century.

When I was young I did not know this and now I wish I did. 

If you are fair looking but not good  looking enough/ beautiful and wish to marry someone handsome it is always going to be a tradeoff. You will end up being with someone better looking than you but interested more on your money than you. Or, if money is something you do not have at least looking for papers or citizenship in a better country than that of their origin. 

Maybe it seems like a good tradeoff, unfortunately it lasts only as long the better looking partner 's interests are fulfilled (meaning giving them money or staying married until they get the permanent residency in the better country or unitl they find out you won't marry them for papers). 

The same scenario happened to me with multiple partners both in the US and Europe. 

So I learned to stay OUT  of psychotic/ desparate to marry men from Venezuela, drug addicts from Iran, chronical liers from Israel, short term marriage men from Algeria or gigolos from Tunisia.

If you are beautiful and marry into wealth, I am not sure if that would make you happy either unless you are more interested in material things than love. Both my second cousins are very looking and both married out of interest and they ended up having a lot more than I have based only on their looks and not their intellectual capacity or working skills.

This had me thinking of all the years of schooling and study I went through did not bring me more than a medium income paid job, not sufficient to buy any property on my own. 

Now lets consider children. When I was young all I cared for was a better looking partner disregarding their schooling abilities. This came back to haunt me as a big mistake. My son is yes, good looking but does poorly in school. I was a very studious student and always had good grades not straight A student but a B+ average student. So I always took for granted that anyone can study just as easily as I did. Well that belief proved wrong, and now I struggle to accept my son's school situation. Part of the situation may be my fault because I give him money and gifts without setting any school expectations from him so maybe he is not motivated enough to study. Nevertheless even the lack of motivation in schooling is not an excuse for his disinterest in any intellectual activities. 

SO, yes please do pay attention to the intellectual capacities/ study in your partner before you decide to have children with them. 

I know it is going to be hard to impossible to find a partner both very studious and very good looking, but you may need to find a balance between good looks and studing capacity. 

In conclusion, do NOT let infatuation get control of your mind when choosing a partner. On the other hand do not let greed rule your thinking either. In other words try to find a balance. Balance is key.

Namaste!

Tomorrow is New Moon in Pisces,

and I want to give some manifestation guidance.

Every month at new moon we are supposed to make a list of our wishes and wants/ goals we want to manifest until then next new moon. This new moon is in Pisces, and for leos falls into their 8th house. 

What all this means?

According to moonologist Yasmin Boland, New Moon in Pisces means "My conscious dreams create my reality". Pisces- is home of dreams, mystical matters and compassion. 

When New Moon is Pisces - we can release fear, work on our intuitive skills. We should write down our dreams this month and it is said that daydreams  can come true. For Leos, tomorrow's new moon falls into our 8th house- the house of shared finances, and sex. 

For me personally this means- more money (meaning stop giving money away and start saving), better sex (watch Sex Lives new season on Netflix starting March 2nd)  and overcome my fear of being alone and other limiting beliefs. Know I have the power to change the conditions of my life.

There are few questions we can ask this new moon:

What would I do if I had more money?

Should I take a new loan out or pay off my old debt?

What can I do to save more money this month?

Should I ask for a pay rise?

You can surely do what I do and try to answer the questions above with reading tarot cards. For me tarot cards are like my best friend/ advisor. You can always have a conversation with your tarot cards and see what they have to say about the matter at hand. Sometimes they give you clues into a different perspective and they can open up your mind towards things you were not able to see before.

One piece of advise though, in my experience if the cards just do not make sense do not insist on giving you an answer to that question. Leave them for a day or two, and come back later and see if they make sense after you give them some rest. If they still do not make any sense, it means Tarot does not want to give you an answer and you should leave it to that. 

Ok, Happy Pisces Month everyone!

Moonology Manifestation Deck, Yasmin Boland

Hi everyone,

today's post is about a clarification: Tarot by itself it is NOT Devil's work! 

First of I am NOT a witch and I do not practice spells. I consider the way I practice Tarot to be completelly "holy" and not against God's word. It is all about how you practice tarot not just tarot being satanic per se.

If you do not do readings for money, do Not tell fortunes , do Not do spells and do NOT worship Satan, then you are in line with God's teachings and DO not let anyone tell you otherwise. There are a lot of dogmatic priests especially those that come from Orthodoxy that are eager to blame you for use of Tarot cards but they are wrong. You do No wrong just by using Tarot as a social game, or for personal use or for teaching tarot. 

SO, yes I do NOT call myself a witch and I am NOT practicing paganism/ Wicca. I am also not a church going type of person. I believe my relationship with God is private and I do not need to excuse myself to anyone for using tarot cards. 

In my view it is all in the way you choose to use Tarot that defines if it is against God's words or NOT.

In short, you do not need to be witch to practice tarot. It s true a lot of witches do use tarot but they use it for spells and telling fortunes and in pursuit of money and I personally prefer to stay out of these things. 

If you are looking to have fun with the cards and learn tarot for personal use and how to journal, stick around you are at the right place! 

Love and light!

Happy Valentine s Day!

I know in my younger years this day used to be a big thing, but NOW after reaching almost age 50 it is not that important anymore!

Valentine is an exciting day if you are in a couple but also it can be a self love day if you are single. 

I honestly do feel more comfortable wearing my PJ all day and having my hair undone than waxing, putting makeup on and getting all dressed up. I find it that it is more comfy to just be by myself and drink tea , read tarot cards  and practice my manifestation wishes and wants than to go out somewhere. 

What I am trying to say it is not that it does not feel great to be with someone you love on this special day, because it sure is! What I mean is that it is also OK to be by yourself and not need someone other person in your life to feel also happy on Valentine s Day!

I personally do not need  self validation to have someone in my life right now! Earlier this year, I had planned an escapade with an Italian man I knew for some years ago but never got tot date before, only to cancel last moment because I felt that if it did not happen before maybe it was not meant to happen at all... I am like that, I change my mind last minute. I am sure he was deeply dissappointed since he had all plans made to come see me, but I m sure he also recovered fast, well because he s Italian and Italians do not stay single too long... 

I was also making friendly conversation with a single, divorced neighbour thinking just to be nice ONLY to find out he was taking my kindness as an interest in dating him. I was like, what is wrong with him? So, I politely have to turn him down. Some men if they see you friendly it means for them you are ready to date them and that is just so unfortunate!

So, yeah, I am not over thinking that is Valentine and therefore I should be with someone! This time if I date someone new, I want to be for REAL!

Unfortunately I found that at my age my options are limited to dating: unstable, adventurous Italian man, or dodgy divorced neighbor or younger totally financially dependent on me Tunisian man. 

I am sure that I can make better than that, just that I do not find the energy to go look after someone new! I am kind of old fashion minded and think that if I am meant to meet someone new they will somehow find me, without me doing any search work!

Well not without any work, exactly since we need to ask the Universe for something if we want to manifest it! So for new moon wishes on Sunday I will ask to manifest love with a "king of pentacles"  man. That means STABLE in all aspects type man- not only financially but also emotionally. 

So, yes if you are single on Valentine Day this year, do not fret about it,  you still have people in your life that love you like friends and family.

Love and Light!

This Valentine is for LOVE in all forms and kinds!

 I am happy to announce that I will be back with new tarot postings. 

I decided that I will make this blog about all tarot things I love... If I love it I am going to enjoy it while I make it and eventually be very good at it, because anything done with passion is different & much better than when just done for a job that pays for a living.

Today is Last Quater Moon in Scorpio and according to Yasmin Boland "something will reveal that needs to be seen". 

About 8 month ago I was torn apart by the departure of my best friend and ex lover, but now he is back. I was excited that he returned but when I saw him yesterday the magic was not there anymore... the feeling of excitment that I used to have seeing him, was No longer there... and I came to admit to myself that this relationship is better let go. I decided Not to tell him about it yet, and instead just observe him for the rest of the month, if nothing changes I will just end the relationship.

I feel like I have better things ahead of me than to wait forever on a relationship that is no longer satisfying. 

The thing is I am working full time, but I feel I want to get back into reviving this blog. Posting in here certainly does not feel like work, and as I am not focusing in sales the writing in here should be fun for me and entertaining for you, the reader.

I feel I have overcome great difficulties but now my life situation is pretty stable so I can get to enjoy things that made me happy in the past, like this blog. I had lots of plans of learning new things like HTML 5 and CSS and Java Script, and upgrading my French level but all failed after just a few lessons because it was nothing that made me happy. 

So, my advise to you, do NOT waste time in your life with things that do not bring you joy, unless absolutely necessary.... and allow time for things that DO make you Happy! Because JOY is necessary for our mental health! 

So, I ll be writing back shortly... 

And one more thing this month is all about meditation in order to start manfiesting your wishes...and I know are not "wishes" because those tend to not happen ever, start manifesting your goals. !

Until then Namaste!