Monday, July 13, 2009

Update

Hi everyone,

I am writing to give advance notice that only followers will be able to post comments on the blog so please make sure you are registered with a google account if you want to continue to post. The change will be as of tomorrow.

I will start to post new topics, twice a week under which new questions can come in. The original thread became too long and it is easy to miss out on certain comments/ questions. Mellisa, CoffeGem, Peanut55 and Christina I have your questions- you do not need to re-post. I will write down your answers as comments under this topic.

40 comments:

  1. Mellisa -
    it was really nice you included all the information for a clear reading.
    Here is your cards advice:

    - your partner is not a player, but it will be foolish on your behalf to push things further.
    - I can see your most fear is dissapointment, but you are safe of that;
    - I am not sure what is the rush in making a decision now.. anyway there will be no decision at this time.
    Tarot is pointing at a loyalty test.
    Let things work their course. I honestly dont see neither bright cards saying this is definetly the man for your, nor bad cards. He is not a bad person and I do not see him using you in any way.
    I think if you want this man you should wait longer and do not rush him. Your fears are unfounded.
    Try again in 2-3 weeks see what happens.

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  2. Melissa-
    there is something I want to add:
    I sense a very unemotional realtionship, very calculated and convenient. I do not think this will change. You have no cups in your reading- just swords and wands; Please keep your options open- dont limit yourself to this relationship is not a sure win.

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  3. Biancat,

    Thank you very much for the reading.

    So you sense that he could enter into a relationship with me purely out of convenience, but he will not have feelings for me?

    Melissa

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  4. Greenilosity- i posted a comment for you under the 1st Post. I hope you are doing well.

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  5. Ice Coffee Gem you posted 3 questions and I can only answer 2 at this time. Can you also rephrase question 3 so it will make more sense in case you want to use that question as one of your 2 you can ask at this time.
    Please provide some clarification if you are a she or a he and also please provide the astrological info on the people involved in your reading (at minimum please provide your sign)
    Thank you.

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  6. Hi again- Melissa
    No, as I said he is not a player. I meant that he is an introvert, a more rational person by nature. If you may strive for a romantic type he may not be able to provide that to you. Is that something you can compromise on?

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  7. Christina- sorry I could not find your question- can you please repost here afterall.

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  8. Dear Biancat,

    Thank you very very much for the reading, I really appreciate how generous you have been with your time and your knowledge. You are amazing and giving. Thank you.

    Melissa

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  9. Hi Kj4859-
    you have 4 major arcana cards in your reading- showing that you are going through very important life events/ changes. So your reading is highly justified.. I totally see that.
    You will either NOT get a new job, or if you will you will Not like it. I also see your greatest fear is change. You are seen as in a weak position right now- overspending.
    You are leaving some very dirty waters behind. It could be that you will be leaving literally somewhere new/ possibly a journey over water- However being a career reading it could a move for job.
    Your reading is under the Moon influence- a lot o information is hidden from you. In the short term there will be a change in your income- an improvement- which kind of points that you will get a job afterall and you will not like it.
    Your message is to prepare well and act prudently. Ir looks like the money you will receive will be overspent. Watch your purchasing behaviours.

    On the 2nd question- the answer is "wishful thinking". You may some small amounts of money on it but you cannot become an astrologer in the sense of career. There is conflict regarding this matter and you will need to "fight" and defend your cause. If you invest time on astrology you may find luck from it.
    Your main challenge in becoming an astrologer is overcoming a lot of conflict and even pain.

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  10. Peanut55-
    It looks like your relationship is for the wrong reasons.. this friendship will only bring pain. Someone is this relationship is getting burned.
    Forget about future here- is not happening with this person. You also got 3 fours in your reading meaning- restlessness and anxiety.
    Are you an Aries? An aries person comes out strong in your reading.

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  11. Hi Biancat,

    Thanks for the insight. I will continue to do astrology for a hobby. When you mention an improvement in income I believe my husbands work will pick up.
    I am still in school now so I prefer to focus on school. A friend of mine wants me to help her run her business in the coming months, but I have mixed feelings about this and I would rather be home with my daughter with my head in some books. But I can't do that forever and at some point I need to be more proactive about my financial future.
    My spouse and I do have conflicts about money. I think we have too many expenses, but I can't convince him of this.
    I think homemaking is still important to me. My daughter is only three. My cousin just moved in she knows she is expected to help us financially next month. I am hopeful her money will come through soon,so we can get some relief. (She is a spender too. So I hope she eventually gets wiser about how she spends and how this effects other people. She has hardly helped so far.)
    I see patience will be a virtue for me now as I go through the times ahead. I did two readings that on the website you suggested and your reading comfirms that I am in a transitional time period...probably for a few years. I don't think my daughter is old enough for me to be working too much. Thank you very much for the reading! Keep using those talents.

    kj4859

    ps- one of my conflicts about astrology is church going. I am raising my daughter around church people and I have to be secretive about astrology because it could geprodize my children's ministry position.

    Thanks Again :)
    kj4859

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  12. JenLynn123-
    can i please warn you not to pursue this relationship? It will not do you any good if you do. I am honestly not suprised because when you meet people online they always pretend to be something they are not and there is a lot of fraud there. I am not saying this man is fraud but this man has issues. There is also another woman involved and the general reading is not that good. It shows bad judgment to pursue this relationship. I did your cards two times because I wanted to be sure. So I am sure you should pass on this one.

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  13. Kelly thank you for sharing personal information and for your kind words.

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  14. Thank you for the warning. I have not heard from him in a few days and will not pursue it any further. Can I ask you to see if you see anyone good coming into my life anytime soon? Thanks again so much!

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  15. Hi Biancat,

    I am a female and Gemini, the guy I am referring to is an Aries.

    1 - Will I have a future with the person I am currently involved with?

    2 - Will my financial situtation improve now that I've taken steps to rectify my problem?

    3 - Will I ever be free? I feel really bogged down with family responsibility right now and want to live my own independent life.

    Thanks in Advance.

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  16. Hi Chinas-
    I see reconcilliation steps.. I also the deep sorrow you have just recently came out of. Even though things are getting a bit better- you are off to a good start, and there is an opportunity it does not look like it will go through in the end- at least not yet. It will still be a lot of work to do.
    Your cards message is: to cut the ties of the past or it can mean a dissapointment over an inheritance. I tend to think is the first one.

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  17. Ice Coffe Gem-
    the answer to your first question is- there is a very good opportunity to have this man in your future- if you survive the present..
    I see a traditional committed relationship crossed by a lot of problems. There is some change and deception. Somebody here is inclined to act on impulse- that may be more like him- as an aries.In the near future things get a bit firey- maybe even court..or something legal.
    It looks like it will have to be changes for that long term opportunity to happen and it will be a delay. It is like both of you will have to start brand new, turn a new page- but as I said it will take some time.

    ok- your financial does not showing anything regarding money- which tells me you are still in the transition period. It will take some time before you see that improvement. I also that your expectations are a bit too high- they will not happen like that.
    You have a couple of aces- which means new beginnings. This financial change you are expecting is not showing as much as your emotional expectations- you have a lot of hearts in your reading and this not a relationship reading. So you are very emotional about this money situation. There is a delay here too. The general message is this is a time for preparation and wait until "tomorrow" to see those changes you are expecting. So in short your not done yet as you think you are- before you see results. Still the general atmosphere is good- it looks like is a good time for you to invest now (financially)-

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  18. Jenlynn -
    I hope you are not dissapointed about the online guy. You did not loose anything.
    Ok- there is no prince coming your way right now, but this is only temporary. The general atmosphere is not very happy and you will need to make a move/ to leave something behind you before you are ready to date someone new.

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  19. Hi Biancat,

    I have thought overnight about the reading you did for me yesterday concerning Rob & I, & whether we would progress further from our very casual relationship or if I am wasting my time wanting more with him. I just wanted to clarify something with you please.....you mentioned that Tarot was pointing to a loyalty test. I believe his last serious girlfriend cheated on him and wanted to know is he testing me as to whether I will wait for him and not start seeing someone else, does he not believe how attracted I am to him when I try to explain? He seems to have this idea that I must have heaps of guys hanging around, chasing after me but I really am a one man woman and he is the one I am interested in.

    Do I need to be patient because he is not sure of me or because he is afraid/not ready to get more involved with anyone?

    My dob again is 4th May, 1971 @ 3pm (Bendigo, Australia) and Rob's is 2nd May 1979 (Melbourne, Australia) time unknown.

    I would appreciate any insight into this please and thank you in advance for your help again.

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  20. Melissa-
    This is not about you being unfaithfull. I told you card were undecided so keep your options open. Just because you meet someone new it does not mean you are cheating. It looks you need someone with a different personality- someone more open so why tie yourself with this guy and drive yourself crazy with different scenarios.
    I told you he will not change it is not like he will share his feelings with you openly. It is not his character you either accept it or wait for a man will be more romantic.

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  21. Hi Biancat,

    I guess it's not so much about me needing someone with a different personality, it's more about me needing to know if there will be more with this guy or if I'm wasting my time. I'm very patient but after 7 months I want to know if it will develop into more or if it will always be just as casual as it has been. I want more than the casual situation we've had and just wanted to know if he would be interested in more with me too. If he is not, then at least I know and then it's time to move on and forget about him. At the moment I hear from him/see him maybe once or twice a month.

    I accept that he will not be so open but want to spend more time with him.

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  23. Ok- I understand your point. Unfortunatelly is not something you can do right now. The cards where unclear about the future. I explained to you about his personality and the fact that he is not the emotional type of guy that will put his feelings first. It will not be a change for now. As far as waiting only you can decide if you want to wait. Based on the facts I gave you you can make your decision.

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  24. i think you wanted an explanation of the loyality test- interpretation. I know you think that he is slow because he does not trust you but I think the cards meant that if the relationship will survive the way it is.
    Loyality test was for the relationship not for either one of you in particular.

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  25. Biancat!

    Thank you again. I'm disappointed, but not about him in particular as I've had enough heartache and do not wish to find anymore. Just disappointed that it hasn't happened yet. I've worked hard and am finally feeling ready to have someone and just frustrated that it's so difficult to find. Not sure what there is to leave behind? I'm not with anyone at all right now...nor are there any current prospects?

    Thanks for your help!

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  26. Jenlynn- you need to leave behind emotional baggage; and not repeat the mistakes you made in the past. Unfortunatelly love does not come when is expected. Now is just not a good time for you for romance- wait and it will come to you

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  27. Melissa- if you want a relationship with this guy you will have to wait longer. If you feel this relationship is too casual just ended and look for someone who is more ready to fall in love. I agree I see no love with this guy, at least not now.

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  28. Okay. I think I've done that part already. I've already forgiven those who have hurt me, and worked hard to forgive myself for putting myself in the situations which have allowed it. I am finally free of the baggage at last and have found happiness within. Am now ready for love and guess only thing left to do is wait, I guess.

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  29. Hi biancat, I have some more questions if thats ok.

    1. Am I going to have a new long term intimate relationship in my life soon?
    2. What is my living situation going to be like in the future; am I going to have to move?

    My cards I drew were (Celtic Cross):

    1. king of pentacles (inverted)
    2. page of pentacles (crossover position)
    3. the lovers
    4. 6 of swords (inverted)
    5. 9 of cups
    6. the hanged man
    7. queen of wands
    8. 8 of swords (inverted)
    9. strength
    10. justice (inverted)

    My birthday is 7-17-69, 11:52am.
    Thanks!!

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  30. Chrissy are the cards you drew answer to the first or to your question. It looks to me an answer to a relationship question. What was your question at the time of drawing these cards?

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  31. Chrissy-
    your cards get the following general meaning:
    Here is your relationship- portrayed by the lovers card which also happens to be be your goal or destinty card. Whatever question you had the final outcome is a NO- that shows some sort of disadvantage, injustice, inequality or even a loss of a lawsuit. The card has to do with making decisions, not necessarily legal ones.
    The hanged man in the near future position shows that you must decide something about and for yourself, even if in a relationship. This card it also point at the sacrifice you make in the relationship to make it work. This is a time for change from this perspective. There is also the issue of somebody in the relationship feeling trapped or being captured- it points at your partner, not at yourself.
    Ok- we can go into specifics when you write back with your exact question.

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  32. Chrissy-
    it looks like your desire for a relationship is your goal. I see a particular man here and he was on your other reading too- King of Pentacles. He is either an Earh sign or a wealthy man. But do not see a real relationship here. Whatever it is is not working out for you at this time. Please wait longer before addressing your love life again.

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  33. Love Advice- for everyone

    For those of you that are interested in enhancing your love life I have few tips.
    Buying a couple of pink or red candles and putting them in pairs in your bedroom is very helpful in that direction. Burning some rose incents and throwing a piece of red cloth on the SW corner of your bedroom is also a nice idea to enhance romance in your life.
    Cut a picture from a magazine of a man that portrays the physical qualities you are wishing to find in your yet to find partner. Place that picture in a box or inside your closet door in your bedroom. When is New Moon in the first 24 hours write down your romantic wish in a journal. This will also increase your chances of finding love.
    And not last- do get some pink linen for your bedroom.
    I hope these tips will help improve your love life and help you find romance.

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  34. Hi biancat, sorry I posted both questions but only one reading LOL. Too late at night I guess!

    It was for the first question, and what I was actually thinking about was whether or not I'll ever get married again.

    I'll do another one for the second question a little later. Thanks!!

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  35. Biancat, I have a situation that is concerning me that I would like some tarot insight on. Last night, I went out with a guy that I went on a couple dates with many months ago. In my mind, we were friends catching up so that is not what my question is about. At some point, I suddenly sensed that he has a gift. I began pressing him about it and he was visibly uncomfortable, but admitted that he can see some things to a degree, but more often "hears" things. I asked if he was hearing things around me. He indicated that he was and that there is something about me. He has never discussed this ability with anyone, nor has he really ever focused it or tried to develop it. I asked him to indulge in it a moment and just kind of read me. He was very intense and told me that I am "a magnet." He warned me to be careful and when I asked if that was a bad thing he stated that "it could be. It has the potential for bad." He said he has never been around anyone where he has had these feelings, but that he has been to places where he's had the same feeling he gets around me. Is something bad going on around me? Am I okay? Also, got a very strange vibe from him at one point. I'm not sure if it was the intensity of the conversation, or whether there is some real danger in me continuing a friendship here. Can you advise at all? Sorry, this is a bit rambling. I'm a little freaked out, actually. Thanks.

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  36. Jenlynn- the cards are showing me that this man besides his bad news and highly unusual behaviour has real feelings for you- and its comes up as a sincere friend to you. It comes out as you are trying to separate, cut ties to this person. On his position it shows some anger and maybe deception. Whatever happened things are tense between the two of you but there is some kind of love in the future- especially I think more from him.
    I do not see in any danger, but you do have some difficulties coming you. You have Mars reveresed in the Others position - some external conflict.
    I can totally see your fear- but it will be mostly a fear of change.

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  37. Jenlynn- sorry my computer froze a couple of times, a lot of words have been repeated, but I hope you did understand me.

    Re: if anyting will happen to you- the answer is NO. There are some bad messages/ warnings that come to you but there is no reason for fear at this time. Just some irratibility and agitation nothing more than that. I wonder if your friend is an Aries.. because he shows strongly in the fear question. If he is not an aries this man is authoritive- he shows like he will stand by and support you in your personal and business matters.

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  38. Thanks. He is actually a Leo (8/1). I was so unsettled yesterday that I did speak with a pyschic friend of mine and discussed the encounter. She advises that I appear to be "stuck" and "in the red" right now and need to do some energy cleansing, but am otherwise fine. However, there was a moment with him when as he was talking about something (about himself) for a brief moment he gave me a look out of the corner of his eye that immediately caused me to feel danger. If I had blinked, I'd have missed it, but his eyes went dark and I literally saw his face change. I wanted to dismiss it as intensity about the topic being discussed, or just in my head. My friend has advised that I need to stay away from him and not have any contact. She said this was what is called a "show" of the soul. She also does not believe I am in any immediate danger from HIM, but says there is some sort of dark energy or soul around him that would not be good for me to be around. I met him online a few months back and have only been around him very little so it should not be hard to break ties since there was nothing very strong developed in the first place. Thanks for all of your insight.

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  39. Biancat,

    Thank you so much for your last update, I've been a little busy and haven't been on for a few days. I think I understand what you are saying, and I believe I need to work through my own confusion first and figure out what it is that I want. Part of me wonders if I want him more because I can't have him at this time, something to think about and work on. Thanks again for everything.

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